It’s a new year but the same you huh? Another year is upon us and you’re overwhelmed with what it’s going to bring?! You watch as people post their vision boards and eye-catching goals traps. Every trainer want to help you get skinny while you pay them $12,005,896.00 a week to do so. Everybody you know wants to start a business or maybe they already have one ☝🏽! 3,678 want you to pay 5 small payments of $19.99 before your taxes are filed. Your viewing all this feeling incompetent or feeling like you’re not doing enough. Well I’m here to drop a message S T O P! Most of these people are putting on a show for these apps , when in fact their real life is in shambles like yours love.
Webster’s definition of anxiety is : “apprehensive uneasiness or nervousness usually over an impending or anticipated ill;a state of being anxious. an abnormal and overwhelming sense of apprehension and fear often marked by physical signs (such as tension, sweating, and increased pulse rate), by doubt concerning the reality and nature of the threat, and by self-doubt about one’s capacity to cope with it.” The Curves definition of anxiety: ” your gut making you feel like your inferior to people who act like they have their shit together but in all actuality have nothing together. When you gotten complacent in life and instead of changing it , you watch other people live your dreams cause if it was you it couldn’t be successful.”
“You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf 🌊🏄🏽♀️” Anxiety doesn’t define anybody. Anxiety is one seat in the Barclay Center, step back and look at the whole arena! Once you accept your flaws nobody can use them against you period. Treat your anxiety like a child make it sit down and listen to you. How many people have cancer and still live? How many people have disabilities but still find a way to live? Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet ! The greatest things are built from the biggest struggles!
Ambition is the willingness to strive. The absolute desire to be better and earn power, honor, fame, or wealth! Your probably reading this overthinking wonder if I read a page in your diary?! I didn’t ! I want this to be the sign you needed to get you out that rut. Don’t let anxiety kill your ambition! There is always people rooting for even when you make yourself feel like nobody likes you at all. Breathe and pray you’ve been and this place before and you survived it !
” Be as fearless as the women whose stories you have applauded ” Until you do this you will eternally depend on conditions for happiness! You will also remain a victim of your anxiety and circumstances.
Till next time ,